Diary of a Mad Black Woman Reveiw

Producer, writer, and actor Tyler Perry creates the ultimate story in “Dairy of a Mad Black Woman.” I enjoy how he allows for a mix of laughter, through characters like Madea, and tears, from intense and emotional scenes, to his viewers. For whatever the reason Tyler Perry plays the parts of Madea, her brother Joe, and himself in this film which adds a more personal touch for his fans like me. This is a story for all the women in the world who have ever been mistreated by men in their lives. This film more specifically targets the relationships between black men and women. The way Tyler Perry writes and creates this magnificent film has a direct effect on the women that watch it, allowing them to feel empowered.

This film tells the story of a woman named Helen. She writes in her diary about the struggles in her marriage to Charles. Not only does Charles mentally and physically abuse her, she discovers early on that he is having an affair with another woman named Brenda. On the night that Charles drags her out of the house and moves Brenda in, Helen also is told about their two boys. Helen is absolutely crushed, but also mad. In the beginning all she wants is to try to make their marriage work, mainly because she is to scared, but eventually she wants her revenge.

While she is apart from him, and living with the hilarious Madea (her distant relative), Helen asks her cousin Brian to handle their divorce. Brian agrees, and is later discovered as the link between Helen and Orlando. Orlando is a friend of Brian’s, that was there on the night Charles threw Helen out of the house. When he was driving Helen to Madea’s, Helen took her anger out on him and threw him out of the moving truck that had been loaded earlier that day with all of her things. As anyone can see in a romantic comedy such as this, Orlando and Helen begin to have feelings for each other.

Helen is so afraid of loving again, but Orlando tries to show her how to trust and let go of the past. Tyler Perry does a great job with the portrayal of a woman such as Helen, and any woman can relate to the feeling of betrayal that Helen has felt. The way that he directed and wrote the film, and always plays the nice guy in his features, leads me to believe that he is a hopeless romantic at heart . . . and what woman doesn’t want the good guy like from in the movies?

One morning Orlando proposes to Helen, but before she could say anything she notices that Charles has been shot and the story was on the news. Helen then leaves without a word, and tells the nurse, once she gets to the hospital, to resuscitate, even though Brenda tells them to let him die. Once Charles recovers from surgery to remove the bullet, Helen takes him home. Unable to walk, Charles begins bossing Helen around (like he always has), and this very moment sets her off. I cannot possibly explain in writing the adrenaline rush I get when watching this very scene. The acting and dialog makes this scene perfect. After weeks of torturing Charles emotionally, Helen meets with Orlando to tell him that she and her husband are back together. I believe she does this because Charles finally worked up a real heartfelt apology; but, Orlando then calls her out. He tells her that he knows she is afraid to leave Charles for good, but he also knows she wants to. Orlando walks out when she asks him to remain in her life, because he doesn’t want just half of her. This part is one that makes the audience frustrated, because everyone can see that she got over Charles, and wants to be with Orlando.

About a month or two later, when the family was eating Thanksgiving dinner, Helen tells Charles that they will always be friends and hands him divorce papers. Finally Helen came to her senses. She then went to look for Orlando. The film ends with Helen professing her love to Orlando, a big step for her, and Orlando proposing a second time. Helen obviously accepted.

Tyler Perry does a great job explaining how sometimes it is too hard to let go and let God. I like that this film teaches many lessons in love, and just about people in general. “Diary of a Mad Black Woman” teaches also how forgiveness will allow you to move on and not allow people to have power over you. This film is quite possibly the greatest out of all his movies. I would recommend anyone to watch this feature. Women get a lot out of the romantic crap that we all know we love, and men like the funny parts with Madea, and her brother Joe. I am not simply stereotyping; furthermore, there is something in the film for everyone to enjoy watching.